Wedding Party gifts

I was planning on paying for the bridesmaids dresses-two of the 3 are our children.

I have am paying for my girls hair, a hair clip to wear on the day, made slippers with their name on it, hanger with their name on it and title. For the boys Cigar, each a case of beer and a beer mug with their name on it and our date.

We don't have a flower girl but maybe go to build a bear and dress it up as a flower girl and you can customize it. of course depending on her age. A jewelry set that she can wear on the day of, little girls love to have their own jewelry, I know I did.

They don't have to be expensive gifts just something fun that they can use or something meaningful.

My husband and I only had best man and maid of honor stand up for us. We gave the best man a watch and my maid of honor got concert tickets to the backstreet boys

There's no custom. It really depends on the person. Since your group is so small, you can choose something more suitable to their personal tastes. The gift does not have to be used for the wedding (ie it does not need to be jewelry or stuff embroidered with "BRIDESMAID"). If the flower girl has been eyeing a favourite toy, that would be a great gift.