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Brittany
Devoted August 2019 Alberta

Wedding nightmares !

Brittany, on April 6, 2019 at 11:20 Posted in Before the wedding 0 11
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I’m still 5 months out, and they keep getting worse and worse. Occasionally I would have one. But lately it’s like every other night. These stressful nightmares about the wedding. Not about actually marrying my FH of course. But of everything going wrong. Forgetting important things. People showing up that weren’t invited. My family causing fights. Etc.

The latest one nothing was set up, we forgot bouquets, no one remembered where they needed to go including the officiant. So I had to go out and direct everyone to walk. And then change in to my dress behind a bunch of trees. 😂and we forgot our vows and oh my it was a whole ordeal.

I don’t know if it’s because I’ve had some stressful dealing lately regarding family drama and such. But holy these are getting bad and I’m not sleeping well.

Anyone else dealing with these ? Do they get better or worse ? What can I do?

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Latest activity by Brittany, on April 8, 2019 at 14:39
  • Brittany
    Devoted August 2019 Alberta
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    I have lists for my lists.

    Like I am super organized and have my spreadsheets and everything. But I am still apparently really stressed and anxious.

    Maybe I just need a break haha.

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  • Tori
    Top October 2019 Manitoba
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    I haven't had too many - but I find that writing out a list of what needs to be packed, what needs to be done, etc. really helps with my anxiety and overall I don't worry as much.

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  • Allison
    Master October 2019 Ontario
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    Lol I just might actually! Smiley ups

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  • Brittany
    Devoted August 2019 Alberta
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    Yeah mine are all pre ceremony! And nothing to do with FH. No reception. No actual ceremony. Just about things all going to hell before the wedding actually starts. 😂
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  • Candace
    VIP May 2019 Ontario
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    Mine haven't gotten worse but I keep having them. Mine are similar to yours. There is always something that I've forgotten to bring or the bridesmaids all bought different dresses then the ones they were supposed to, and I mean drastically different dresses. There isn't one so far that I have made it to the actual ceremony because so many things are going wrong in the dream.

    It doesn't seem like anything triggers them but I can't wait to be done with them

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  • Brittany
    Devoted August 2019 Alberta
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    Haha I might lose my mind before then !
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  • Brittany
    Devoted August 2019 Alberta
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    Glad I’m not the only one ! And I sure hope so. It probably doesn’t help that we do have real fears about specific people showing up, or causing drama. It’s probably weighing on my brain more than I realize.
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  • Brittany
    Devoted August 2019 Alberta
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    My god. Some of them do seem so silly afterwards yes. But I wake up so tired and stressed.
    They are a million times worse than the serving nightmares I used to have 😂🤦🏼‍♀️
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  • Robyn
    Super June 2019 Ontario
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    EVERY NIGHT. I'm 70 days away and they are still happening, just as bad as they were months ago, but I've learned to just laugh at them.

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  • Bianca
    Master August 2019 Ontario
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    I wish I knew how to stop them because they keep happening to me! Most recent from last night was where a third of our guests show up.

    Just remember that they’re silly dreams and your actual wedding will be amazing ☺️
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  • Allison
    Master October 2019 Ontario
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    I also deal with wedding nightmares about things not going right. I find talking about them with my FH or MOH helps a lot! I fear that they'll get worse leading up to the wedding but afterwards, we can relax and they'll be gone by then!

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