Wedding jitters

Hey love, I'm glad to see you already got so much support in here If there's anything we can help with, let us know!

I agree with all of these comments! I think it is important to really take the time to think and evaluate, and discuss, just like you did by posting to the community! We are all here for each other which is so nice! Let us know if we can help with anything xoxox

I agree with Valerie. I think it's important to find out where the jitters are coming from. Have you thought about doing some premarital counseling to talk about how things will be once you're married? If you can talk about these things now, it will make you stronger in the long run! Have you talked to your fiance about how you're feeling? Maybe he's feeling the same way! And if you can't talk to your fiance about how you're feeling, who can you talk to? He's your partner for life so he'll be there for you no matter what.

How long have you two been engaged? Is it maybe just stress about wedding planning versus being nervous about being married? Hope that things get better for you!

Its normal... I think... I have had three separate moments since he proposed in October where the commitment hits me and I have felt like throwing up, kind of like a rollercoaster, stomach just drops... I think I'll be pretty jittery once I hit double digits.

It happens! I know I sometimes have random moments where it all feels like it will be so final and am I SURE this is what I want...

I'd say really sit and think about what it is that's making you nervous and see if you can figure out if it's just some jitters, or your gut telling you something else. I'M NOT SAYING IT IS! But it's worth taking some time to yourself to really evaluate. If you have specific concerns (ie, having children, money issues, how to raise kids, whatever), maybe sit with your FH and talk things out.

Try to remember how you felt before he proposed, did you think.. I want to marry this man someday! ?