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Melissa
Newbie January 2017 Ontario

We eloped

Melissa, on February 22, 2017 at 23:36 Posted in Just married 0 7

We eloped and had a small ceremony with one of my sisters and her family (other one didn't show, and my mother, and m/fil

my parents recently divorced (nasty) so my father didn't come.

i always dreamed of my father giving me away 😓

my question is, should we plan a wedding? Or just get some wedding pictures done and Photoshop my father in?

Help! .

7 Comments

Latest activity by Katherine, on February 23, 2017 at 11:57
  • Katherine
    Super September 2017 New Brunswick
    Katherine ·
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    Congrats... Could you get photos with your dad as opposed to Photoshop him in? When Troy proposed I wanted to get married that week at the courthouse and have a fake ceromony before a reception later... He disagreed since it would be "lying" to our guests and would have been a big deal to his side (mine not so much)... Ultimately what is good for one may not work for others... I don't think anyone could object to you having a reception, what does your family say about a second ceremony?
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  • Emilie
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    Hey Melissa! Welcome to the community and congrats!! That's amazing! Smiley heart It's too bad that your father couldn't be there. Smiley sad I can relate with your situation, it's not easy. You should totally do something to celebrate with him! I think it's a good idea. Even if you don't want to organize something big, you could even just have a special dinner, something that makes it meaningful for you two. Smiley heart What do you feel like doing? Do you prefer doing something big or more intimate?

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  • Natasha
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    Congrats on your marriage that is awesome !

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  • Valerie
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    Congrats!! I have nothing else to add that hasn't been said already, you can absolutely have a marriage celebration of you'd like. All about personal preference
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  • Melissa
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    Congratulations!
    I agree with Sam and Carolyn, it is totally up to you and your husband! If you would like to host a reception /party/dinner for a larger group you can, or you could even plan just a special celebration with the two of you and your father.
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  • Carolyne
    Super June 2018 Quebec
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    It is really a decision that you and your husband only will make, but if you really wanted your father you could do a dinner to celebrate your wedding!
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  • Samtam
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    Congratulations on your marriage! What do you and your husband want to do? You could still have a reception to celebrate your new marriage with your family and friends. What made you decide to elope? Is your profile picture from your wedding? It's a beautiful photo! Would love to hear more in order to give better advice!

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