Hey everyone! I have a question.. My fiancé and I set a date for 2026, I know that it is 3 years away but we wanted to make sure we are able to save enough money/make it how we want it. With that being said we currently have two children, the oldest is my fiancés daughter from a previous relationship and the youngest we had together. My question is not about having one child but not the other!!! It is actually about what I should do with our oldest.. She is 6 now so will be 9 by the time we get married, our youngest daughter will be 3 1/2 and we aren't sure if we are going to have another before our wedding. If we decide to try that baby would be around 1ish. Right now as it stands our youngest will be a flower girl as well as if we have another depending on gender either a flower girl or a "ring bearer" in a wagon or something lol. Since our oldest will be 9 I have been debating on whether or not to make her a junior bridesmaid, if not she will also be a flower girl. Has anyone ever had a junior bridesmaid? If so how old was the child? I have really been in a bind over this, I know I have 3 years to figure it out but I am just curious as to what others have done.
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