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Candace
VIP May 2019 Ontario

Signing of papers

Candace, on April 5, 2018 at 14:05 Posted in Wedding ceremony 0 20

When is everyone doing the signing of all the legal papers? Are you incorporating it into the ceremony between the vows and the pronouncement of marriage?

Not sure when to do this and how to gracefully incorporate this into the day..

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Latest activity by Cynthia, on August 7, 2019 at 10:47
  • Cynthia
    Newbie July 2020 Ontario
    Cynthia ·
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    I think this is optional

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  • Vinod
    Top August 2017 Ontario
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    Signing the paper was done before the pronouncement. It took a few minutes for us and the best man(s) as witnesses to sign the paper and book.

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  • G
    Newbie July 2019 Ontario
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    Oh, how we suffered from this same question. But fortunately came to the same decision as Erin.By the way, I wanted to share a link very interesting. To me, it was actual while was at university. With the preparation for the wedding, there was no time for studies, essays and so on. Here these guys have very much rescued me https://paperleaf.ca/write-my-paper/, whether it is not enough, suddenly it is useful to someone.

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  • G
    Newbie July 2019 Ontario
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    Oh, how we suffered from this same question. But fortunately came to the same decision as Erin.

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  • Erin
    Master September 2017 Ontario
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    We did it during our ceremony after the vows and before the pronouncement.

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  • Mzheng
    Frequent user August 2018 British Columbia
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    We will most likely sign right after we say our vows and I do's
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  • Becky
    VIP September 2019 Ontario
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    I am doing the same as Catherine !
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  • Candace
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    This is our plan I think, I like the flow of it
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  • Cathrine
    Devoted April 2018 Ontario
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    We are doing our vows, then signing the paperwork. After the signing we will be pronounced husband and wife, followed by the kiss and exit.

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  • Brittany
    British Columbia
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    We will be doing this at a signing table at the front of the room between the kiss and being pronounced "Man and Wife". I think it's nice for people to feel like they saw the real legal part of it happen, so they know for sure Smiley xd I've had about half the wedding I've been to do it during the ceremony, and I like it better. It only takes a moment, and I feel like it's the timeline that makes the most sense.

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  • Maegan
    Super July 2018 British Columbia
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    Makes sense. We are doing all our photos before the ceremony so we can spend more time with guests at the reception. I dont think we will take any photos of signing the papers though.
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  • Candace
    VIP May 2019 Ontario
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    We thought of this but when our photographer asked us where we were doing the signing table so she can get the pictures we thought we would do it during there ceremony because we aren't doing a first look and it has to be on the same day

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  • Candace
    VIP May 2019 Ontario
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    I like this! I want it to be before we are declared husband and wife (because technically we aren't until we sign) but wasn't sure how it would flow in the ceremony. Thanks!

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  • Holly
    VIP June 2019 Ontario
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    We are doing it during the ceremony. It takes no time at all. Everything will be ready to go so literally all we have to do is sign. Me, fiance, best man and MOH.. will take 5 minutes, maybe less.
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  • Maegan
    Super July 2018 British Columbia
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    We will be signing our papers before the ceremony so we dont have to set up a signing table. Our officiant said it wouldnt be an issue!
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  • Courtney
    Super July 2018 Ontario
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    Our signing will be during the Ceremony, our officiant said we can't do it in advance really.

    Our ceremony order is: Words of Welcome, declaration of intent, Exchanging of Vows, Exchanging of Rings, A reading (poem), Signing the Marriage Document, Prounounced Husband/Wife and Kiss then our introduction of husband and wife.

    This is the wording I'm using for the signing:

    "While this wedding is a celebration of love and commitment, it is also a legal ceremony. I ask MOH and BM to join me and the bride and groom at the table.

    The signing of a marriage certificate is not just a legal requirement. It is in fact an ancient custom that represents the concept that not only must marriage be entered into consensually by both parties, but that it is also a social contract between a couple and their community…for the good of all. Signing the marriage documents is also a self-defining moment for GROOM and BRIDE…perhaps one of the most impactful and consequential moments of their lives. So I ask them to sign the documents before them.

    BRIDE/GROOM SIGN

    I ask MOH and BM to sign the marriage license as witnesses to this moment.

    MOH/BM SIGN


    May the legal benefits and obligations of marriage enhance your life for all the years to come."


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  • K
    Expert September 2018 British Columbia
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    Yes, right after we say I do and we're pronounced husband and wife, we'll kiss then sign the papers at the table set up next to the altar.

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  • Jen
    VIP June 2018 Ontario
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    Right after we say I do and kiss! We have a signing table set up and will go straight to it afterwards.

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  • Candace
    VIP May 2019 Ontario
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    Do you know when in the ceremony you are doing it?

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  • Jen
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    We will be incorporating it into the ceremony. I feel like it's an important part for everybody to watch! Yes, officially bringing the government into my relationship! hahah

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