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Save the date address

Jillian, on August 30, 2018 at 16:30 Posted in DIY 0 8

When writing your addresses on save the dates, did you use formal etiquette or more casual?

EX: Mr. John Smith and Miss Jane Doe


John Smith and Jane Doe


John and Jane


Latest activity by Julia, on September 15, 2018 at 16:18
  • Julia
    Frequent user June 2019 Alberta
    Julia ·
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    I think either could work it would just depend on 1, how formal you want to be and 2, your relationship with them, for some of my parents friends we are putting the more formal and for our friends we are doing more casual
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  • L
    Beginner August 2019 Saskatchewan
    Lacey ·
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    We just did their first name as all of our guests are very close to us. The handful that we are not close to (parents friends) we just did first and last name!
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  • Vinod
    Featured August 2017 Ontario
    Vinod ·
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    Formal as to putting the actual guests name on the invites. Some prefer the first way or going by family if they know they want to make simple.
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  • Stephanie
    VIP May 2019 Ontario
    Stephanie ·
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    Our save the dates themselves were very casual so we kept the labels casual to! First and last names but no Mr. Mrs. Ms....
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  • Gina
    Super April 2019 Alberta
    Gina ·
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    Oops. I totally did casual and didn’t even think about it lol. No one seemed to mind haha
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  • Brittany
    British Columbia
    Brittany ·
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    Traditional wedding etiquette would say to do full formal address, on anything that gets mailed out. But it's up to your discretion with younger friends/family
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  • Tori
    Top October 2019 Manitoba
    Tori ·
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    I plan on putting Mr. and Mrs./Ms./Miss for all the guests (of course no kids will be attending). As long as you don't have anybody that identifies as a They/Them or what have you - you should be fine going that route. If you do though just be mindful Smiley smile

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  • Holly
    VIP June 2019 Ontario
    Holly ·
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    For the older couples we did Mr & Mrs. For everyone else we just did their names.
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