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Renee
Newbie December 2019 Ontario

Ring Bearer - 21 months old what to carry

Renee, on December 12, 2019 at 07:59 Posted in Wedding ceremony 0 8
The ring bearer is our son in our wedding this Saturday (can’t believe it’s almost here!!). He’s only 21 months and he’ll walk down the aisle with his cousin who is our flower girl and she’s 3.


I’m not going to give him the rings as he’s very young and from experience I know he’ll just play with them.
I’ve searched online but can’t seems to find many ideas for what he can carry. Hoping for some ideas!

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Latest activity by Ashley, on December 20, 2019 at 16:15
  • Ashley
    VIP August 2020 Ontario
    Ashley ·
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    He can carry a funny sign!!! or he just carry the pillow!

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  • D
    Newbie February 2020 British Columbia
    Debra ·
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    Our ring bearer is 3 so we bought him a plush white bunny with feet that match our colours. We thought he would find comfort in carrying it and I think it’ll be super cute.
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  • Casey
    Master October 2019 Ontario
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    My Nephew was our ring bearer and he was almost 2, my niece was our flower girl (4 years old). She had a little flower ball to carry, but my nephew honestly walked down the isle holding my sisters hand and the flower girls hand, so it was easier for him not to carry anything!

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  • S
    Expert September 2020 Quebec
    Shannon ·
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    As others have said, the ring security is really cute. with a briefcase that has a handcuff to his hand. With black shades and a mini suit. This is what i am doing too.

    I like the idea of making a sign for him to carry. something cute or cheecky.


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  • Vinod
    Top August 2017 Ontario
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    We had a 1 1/2 boy who walked down with a teenager and he helped with the flower petals to put down on the aisle. Simple fun thing for them to enjoy.

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  • Tori
    Top October 2019 Manitoba
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    When I was a flower girl with my younger cousins he helped me spread flower petals down the aisle. Sure, it was annoying because I was 4 and his technique was to grab as many as he could and throw them in one spot.... (I was super upset by that because even at 4 I knew they are to be spread evenly to look nice and he was "ruining" it....) but it gave him somthing to do!

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  • Amelia
    Master October 2020 New Brunswick
    Amelia ·
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    Some people have them carry signs like "ring security" or "here comes the bride". I've also seen them carry the ring pillow with dummy rings on it. I'm not sure if a 21 month old would have the attention span to carry these though!
    Would he carry a teddy bear with rings (fake ones) tied to it? Then he would be the ring bear-er. (Sorry, I love a good pun!)

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  • Samantha
    Super June 2021 Ontario
    Samantha ·
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    I've seen one ring bearer blow bubbles as he walks down, but he was about 4. I'm not around that many children so don't know if a 21 month old will get the concept.
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