Hey ladies, I need to vent so sorry for the long post in advance!
So we have our honeymoon booked; we're going on a cruise in the Caribbean and I'm super stoked for it! It's personal to us since he proposed on our first cruise almost a year ago when we went with 2 other couples.
That being said, he was talking about it with one of the other couples (I'll call them M and A for simplicity). M and A cruise too and are going on a cruise in January. We were invited but couldn't go since we are saving up for the wedding, but if we could, we would. Anyways my FH and M were talking, and he kind of invited M and A on our cruise in October?! He said he'd ask me about it first before formally asking them. Now, I wouldn't mind except it's our honeymoon?! It would seem weird to have them there, because it should be our relaxing time for just the two of us. We wouldn't see them much either, but again, it just seems weird. The 3 of them are all in law enforcement/security and have common ground where I don't have anything to contribute to those conversations.
Also M and A are married, but for the last year, they've been having a rough patch. I won't get into it too much but they haven't been on par with communicating important things and they are at a point where they need couples' counselling IMO. Things could also change in a year where they are in a better spot but I don't want to have them arguing over dinner or when they are around us while we are trying to enjoy being married lol. Or they could be separated, as much as I don't want that to happen to them. Their cruise in January might help them since they might just be stressed about life and they might come out to be stronger than ever.
I have slept on my thoughts with this and gave myself time to think. I'm gonna tell my FH that I would rather go alone, but maybe the next trip to include M and A. I do like travelling with them and had fun on the last trip, but I'd rather have our honeymoon to ourselves. I hope I am not overreacting and could use some other opinions. I think I also just needed to get it out there, I think I might know more about M and A's problems than my FH and maybe I should let him know of my concerns around that too. He might not be aware of the problem and I've been keeping it to myself for awhile now.
