Postponing Wedding

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For sure frustrating and not professional at all. I completely understand the business aspect of it as well but this is going overboard. I really hope they realize this and work with you on this. Good luck.

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It is very frustrating, and the thing is I do understand that they need the business as COVID has taken a toll on many. However this just creates a bad relationship and could cause them from loosing more business in the future. I am mostly nervous that they will make us pay the full sum remaining and or make us have a smaller wedding and we eat the cost on that as well.

If only our venue was as hospitable as yours!

WOW, this is ridiculous. I am so sorry you are having to go through this. There is NO WAY they can do this as there will probably be no way the restrictions will allow for a 150 person wedding. Our venue promised us a 50 person wedding for May 2021 back in November and are looking at all options again a month before our wedding. We are already pretty sure we will be allowed only a 10 person ceremony but we will wait just in case. They have offered us another postponement or cancelation with our money back.

Definitely get a lawyer involved since this is not what you want. The pandemic and the government are what is stopping you. I really hope you can get this worked out with a better outcome.

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Thank you!! Fingers crossed

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That is what I have been told to do. I am hoping that maybe there is a chance that they have a heart and are accommodating but we shall see.

View quoted message Thats ridiculous because we don't even know when they are going to reevaluate for step 3 again and IMO I don't think it will be anytime soon. Maybe threaten to get a lawyer involved if they won't even have a conversation about our options?

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Right? We have been trying since February 2021 to speak to them about postponing but they keep declining and even said they wont speak to us till step 3 of our restrictions comes out. They have pushed it to the point that now if we had to cancel we would owe them 75% of the minimum charge.

In my opinion, they are crazy to think you will be able to have a 150+ person wedding in 2ish months, when right now you can only have a 10 person max ceremony only! That's super unprofessional of them! They should atleast meet with you and give you options!!