No video of preparations

I agree, the wedding should be mostly about the bride!!! Especially when the bride's family is the one paying for it all! I want to express my feelings but I'm worried. I don't want him to make a video that's not well done because of my complaint. It's just too bad that what's done is done and I can't really do anything that will make me feel better right now. Even getting some money back won't take away the disappointment =( Hopefully, I'll get over this with time. I think that's all I can do. Thanks for your responses ladies.

I would 100% talk to your videographer, that seems really odd to me (there's usually more of a focus on the bride!)

I get where you're coming from though - I felt for our wedding photos, that the boys got way more time and had a lot more creative photos. In the end, once we got all our photos, I was happy with the array we got anyway, so its now okay. If I were in your shoes, I may cut the groom's getting ready from the video.

I'd definitely be having a conversation with your videographer - I know that I'd be expressing my disappointment. They obviously can't go back and get that video, but they can do a partial refund.