Hi Everyone!
I would like to start a discussion about when we first met and even first moved in with our significant others.
Specifically, if your SO does anything that grind your gears! When my fiancé and I first started dating, since we were doing long distance, I was not really aware on some of the things he does now because when I would show up to his place it would be cleaned up and since the relationship was still pretty new he kept it that way. But it doesn't just have to do with being tidy because I can be extremely messy if I am having one of those days. It could be how they chew, do they make a lot of noise with their plate and cutlery when eating? Do they slurp? Can't replace the roll of toilet paper but instead puts a new one right beside it?
IT COULD BE ANYTHING! LOL
After about 9 months of dating, I moved to the city and my fiancé and I moved in together. We adopted a kitten and it was great. UNTIL you start to notice some things that you would not usually do. Here is a list of what my fiancé does that was a huge pet peeve of mine, until I grew to ignore it or he would adjust.
1. Leaving the cabinet doors open in the kitchen. I do not know why, but he leaves the cabinets doors open ALL THE TIME, when we first moved in together, the amount of times I hit my head on one of these things made me INSANE. Eventually because I reminded him so many times or I would start actively looking out for them, it has not been too much of a bother. But I sometimes still get hit and I want to scream lol.
2. Leaving his shoes in the middle of the doorway/hallway. This only became apparent when we moved into a townhouse last year and since we have a back door and a front door and a walkthrough type kitchen, he loves to leave his shoes right in the middle. The amount of times I have tripped. GIRL. Sometimes I get so angry - because I am so prone to accidents that one wrong step or a wrong fall, I got a broken bone or something.
3. Clothes EVERYWHERE BUT THE LAUNDRY BASKET. I swear this is a male thing because the amount of times I see people post about their SO leaving their clothes every where but the dirty hamper. just ugh. I have them in the basement, but not in the washer, on the couch (usually socks), his military uniform left at the kitchen table, clothes in the bathroom, clothes in the bedroom.
Even though he does these things that drive me crazy sometimes, I would not change it for the world. I love him with everything I got and I can not wait to marry him I am ****% he got some pet peeves about me, because I know I am 10 times worse than him LMAO.