Bridesmaids
My husband and I got married on our special day this year but due to covid we weren’t able to have the big celebration we wanted. So we are doing our big party wedding next year. Soon after we got engaged my husband chose and asked all his 6 of his groomsmen. I only asked my moh because she was the only one that needed to attend. Now I am having trouble deciding if I should add on to my party or just keep it simple. I have now asked my husband sister, my cousin and my international bff. I don’t care that our sides would have different numbers. Anyways one of my husbands groomsmen just got married and he was a groomsmen at his wedding too. I am friends with his new wife but we are very new friends. We’ve only really hung out for a year. She did not pick me as a bridesmaid for her wedding (mainly because we are such new friends and she’s known her girls way longer). But she is so nice and fun and I could totally see her getting along with my other bridesmaids. I also know we will be friends 20 years down the line because our husbands our such good friends too. Would it be weird for me to ask her or should I go for it? I feel like the situation just makes sense but I also don’t want to make her feel awkward or anything. What questions should I be asking myself to make this decision?
Thanks!