Needing help finding a big letter m

Hi Heather I don't know how DIY you want to get but I recall when my friend was planning her wedding years ago that she bought a glass etching pen and etched the names into the shot glasses herself - just an idea

For the letters I would agree about checking out event rental spaces but also maybe just DIY'ing? Depends on how handy you are though.

As for the shot glasses - most that I was looking at were around a $1 but when you want them all to read something else on them the set up fee is like $30/each... Any chance you would just want your name and your FH's name on it so that fee is only paid once?

Hey there, Heather

Do you mean a big letter 'M' as in the human-sized ones, like in the below picture?

(Picture sourced from Pinterest)

Would you consider renting one if you can't find it to buy? An event rental company may carry letters for rent. Here are some on the WeddingWire vendor directory - Event Rentals British Columbia.

For the shot glasses, I would definitely recommend you check out Etsy! It's a great place to source personalized items