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Frequent user July 2020 Saskatchewan

Need to vent

Brett, on September 16, 2019 at 12:19 Posted in Before the wedding 0 7
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My brother is supposed to walk me down the aisle since our dad is not with us anymore. But after seeing him yesterday I feel like a horrible sister because I am regretting asking him. Even though I won’t take it back. He got a new tattoo. And typically I don’t have problems with tattoos. Heck I have 4 myself. However when it’s on the side of his head and he keeps the sides of his head shaved(has for years so not likely to change now). I have issues with it. I wish he would have waited til after the wedding next summer. I already have a groomsman with a man bun that I find gross! So I’m feeling a bit frustrated.

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Latest activity by Bianca, on September 16, 2019 at 21:39
  • Bianca
    Master August 2019 Ontario
    Bianca ·
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    I think you need to accept it. I couldn't imagine if someone close to me all of a sudden had an issue with one of my tattoos (or one of my new ones) and wanted to demote me from a special position.

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  • B
    Frequent user July 2020 Saskatchewan
    Brett ·
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    It’s a tattoo of a purple brain across the entire side of his head. It’s cool and I like the tattoo itself. But would have preferred he waited to get it til after my wedding. I’m really hoping my mom can convince him to grow his hair out to help cover it up.
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  • Christina
    Newbie October 2019 Quebec
    Christina ·
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    Wow! I can understand how stressful that may be...maybe ask your makeup artist if she can cover some of it up, of course, he’ll have to agree to that first! Lol Maybe just voice how you feel about his tattoo (how bad are we talking about here?) and work out a solution.
    At the end of the day, it still is your brother but your allowed to have your say in things!
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  • Ashley
    VIP August 2020 Ontario
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    Oh man a tattoo on the head! maybe your photographer can cover it up with the edits? can you ask him to put some make up on it just for the ceremony?

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  • Rayanne
    Master June 2022 Ontario
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    Can't do too much about the tattoo however maybe by the wedding man bun will be over it.... hopefully once you are use to the tattoo you won't be as bothered by it...
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  • Katelyn
    Super October 2019 Ontario
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    Vent away. Don't feel bad you can't help the way you feel. Unfortunately you can't help what others do with their bodies either. I'm sure one day you will look back on your wedding photos and be so grateful that your brother was in them and it won't matter about the tattoo. The memory of him walking you down the aisle will be very special. Sending hugs.
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  • Tori
    Top October 2019 Manitoba
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    Venting is what we're here for!

    I completely get how that wouldn't be your first choice for a look and I agree about the man buns... not my cup of tea...

    You're doing what I would do, just accept and move on unfortunately. Maybe you can just have pictures taken with him on a specific side to avoid it in every pic?

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