Hi everyone!
When I first got engaged, I knew I wanted to have my closest friend as my MOH. She did say yes and it was planned that she was going to be my MOH, but unfortunately had to back out due to some personal matters, which I completely understood. However, it left me in a bit of an uncomfortable situation.
I felt obligated to ask one of my bridesmaids since I knew it would mean the most to her to have the MOH title, and I have known her for a long time and am good friends with her. Since I asked her, she completely took charge and immediately started planning things. I thought she was taking it all very seriously and moving really fast into planning mode, but that it would all be fine.... But, now I'm hearing from the other bridesmaids that she is not involving them in anything... She planned my bridal shower and bachelorette party without taking the other girls' opinions into consideration, and completely planned the bridal shower on her own and told the other girls what she planned for it. She went and booked the bridal shower and then told the girls what they owe her for money, and they feel uncomfortable since she didn't even discuss any of it with them.
I feel like I need to ask her to involve the girls more, but I also don't want her to feel like they are all talking to me about her behind her back. How should I confront her on this?
