moh - Opinion

Friends of mine didn’t have a bridal party. They had everyone sign a wine cork and picked names for who their witnesses were. It was great, suited their personality, and lots of laughs for us! Plus the corks doubled as their guest book

If you don't have one yet just leave it be. I don't think one is necessary tbh. My cousin just got married and they didn't have a wedding party and it was really lovely.

I think its totally fine not to have one. My sister and Friend are equality important to me. If you have a bridal party just let them know you need a witness and would like one of them to decide. MOH is over rated

I think its totally fine not to have a MOH! I almost didnt because my sis/bestie are equally close and i didn't want to choose, but i eventually went with my sister so my mom didnt get salty @ me lol.

We don't have a wedding party and we're doing just fine! We asked two friends to be our witnesses and that's it.

If you don't feel comfortable asking anyone, then don't it'll be less stressful in the end!

Totally your decision. If you don't feel like you have a friend close enough to honor as the MOH, you can just have a whole bridal party of just bridesmaids, or no bridal party at all.

If you and FH haven't discussed the topic yet, then best to leave it and just ask her to be a witness. That should be something to honour you. Same with your hubby.

You don't need one! I was so clsoe to just canceling my whole wedding party, on my side at least. I've had such drama with the girls already. I fired my original MOH because she was just a bad friend, even kicked her out of the wedding party completely. And I just fired another bridesmaids for pretty much the same thing. If you have that one friend you just can't be without on the day then as her/him. If not I personally don't find it necessary. It's your day, do it how you want

If you have doubts then you have a few options: 1) don't appoint someone your MOH; or 2) don't have a bridal party. Either option is acceptable and totally up to you. It's your wedding do as you please.

It's fine not to have a bridal party. Asking someone to be a MOH is a way to honor someone close to you, so if there is no one who you can see filling that role then it's totally fine to consider skipping it. If there is a guy you are particularly close to you can also have a man of honor instead. I'm sorry to hear your friends aren't being super supportive, I hope you have some people on your side who are excited for you.

For me the girls I had next to me, they were my sisters and my best friends... The one's I couldn't picture not standing next to me the day of my wedding. It is all a personal decision.. If you think that your friends aren't going to be supportive enough, or not help in any way etc, then you don't have to have someone stand next to you.