Long distance marriage advice

View quoted message Ya, patience needs to be strong for sure. Though we can't do visits because he has no leave available and I don't get my passport till I get my visa.

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Thanks for the advice! Means a lot!

& thanks I got pretty lucky

When it comes to long distance my advice is always to make time for each other and be dedicated. Even when you're busy you have to stop and answer their text, where as in a "regular" relationship you could put it off and talk to them later. Even when youre tired you have to skype, where as in a "regular" relationship you could skip the skype date because you'll just see them tomorrow. You know what i mean? Just make time and be dedicated. You'll be with him in no time!

(Ps - congrats on scoring a man with an accent! haha)

Just keep doing what you’re already doung: Skype as often as you need/want.

Patience and maybe some visits. I think that is all you can do at this point.

View quoted message It's actually me going over there but thanks!

Paitience I guess. Unfortunately it’s a process because people abuse the system. They just want to make sure everything is ok and all good to go. He should be over in no time.