Is it ok to have an alcohol free wedding?

At the end of the day his health is what's most important

You are very welcome!!! I hope you do what's best for the both of you!

Thanks for the great suggestions also thinking about having non alcoholic wine and beer, not sure though.

I agree 100%

As much as we try to please everyone , at the end of the day it's your day! And your FH sobriety to me is much more important! You could always have a wedding brunch and so something in the afternoon , so there isn't alot of focus on alcohol! Or have different premium stations like a coffee bar! Or have a mocktini bar?! Some suggestions! Hope you do what's right for you both

Thanks I look forward to planning our wedding, this is our biggest problem I think

happy to help, I understand what you are facing in a way....it's a hard balance.

Looking forward to hearing more of your wedding plans!

ok thanks

That's a great idea to have a mid day celebration. I wanted to get married in the late afternoon but I really like your suggestion thanks so much.

And it is wonderful and supportive of you to stop drinking for him. I think that's shoes how good you are together don't feel pressured to offer alcohol And spend your day stressed and worried

Thanks this is what I' leaning towards I just dont want him to feel pressured by being around alcohol all day.

Then absolutely go alcohol free. Sometimes you need to do the less popular thing to protect your health, and this might be one of those times. Even if your fiance was not tempted, he might feel uncomfortable, And you would be worried, that isn't a nice way to spend your wedding!

I do wonder if anyone will ask why. It would be impolite to ask, but people are odd. Be prepared just incase.

Have you considered a brunch wedding, or a midday celebration? Might adjust the expectation of drinking a little and offer your FH a chance to remain discreet if he wants to.

I never had a problem with alcohol but when we started dating I gave up all alcohol for him. He's comfortable around alcohol I'm just worried if the excitement of the day and being around family and friends if he's strong enough to say no.

I also enjoyed drinking at weddings but since we started dating I stay away from all alcohol. The only reason I'm worried is because it's our wedding and most people don't know that he's a recovering alcoholic, thats why I wanted an alcohol free wedding.

I will be honest, I enjoy a drink at weddings, and your guests will notice the absence of alcohol and maybe wonder or not be happy.
HOWEVER
If you or your future husband want/need to avoid alcohol to stay in recovery, I think dry wedding is the way to go....recovery and staying healthy is paramount.

If, your FH truly can be around alcohol and feel comfortable it would be nice to offer wine or beer. Guests really will appreciate it. But if it might create a problem, don't. nothing is worth compromising health and hard work.
It might be a tough choice - wish you lots of luck!

Hi Alexandra, I applied you and your FH. I feel there is no wrong with having an alcohol-free wedding. I think that to prevent any temptation I recommend it. If your guests complain then I feel they need to respect your decision. I will support your decision.