I’m need of inspiration

View quoted message 100% you got this and we are always here.

View quoted message I have to remember that whatever is right for us…is what is right. It’s hard when there are so many voices. But this!! This is what I needed to hear.

View quoted message We really have had to think of many plans during all this. We really thought about a microwedding as well. If we didn't have so much down in deposits we probably would have gone with that. Our current venue has an amazing microwedding you can have up to 50 people. They decorate, the officiant, live music, flowers, some food, beer, wine and juices for a really good price. Maybe something like that would be an option too.... Whatever feels right for you is the perfect wedding.

View quoted message This is great advice!!! Thank you. I feel rejuvenated already!!!

View quoted message Thank you for the kind words. Covid really has taken a beating on is Brides and Grooms. I have everything I need (decor wise) even my dress. I just and lost with a venue. I think that’s what’s really making it hard right now

Sorry to hear this Tiffany, COVID sure has made life difficult.

I would decide on what is most important to you and your FH and go from there. If you are getting married in a church can you rent the basement or does a family member have a bigger backyard that you can use?

Best of luck!

I think if you start backwards and figure out what you really need to make your wedding perfect you'll be happier. First you need a licence, officiant and witnesses. All you would have had to pay with your venue. Now can you find a nice chapel or outdoor space you'd enjoy getting married at? Maybe only invite the most important people. We actually got under 25 once we did that. Then maybe scale down to a nice dinner with just those people.... Then you can sort of pick and choose what to add that you can afford. At the end of the day being qith friends, family and the ones you love will make it the best day. Good luck.