How to deal with angry groomsmen

My Fiance has some crazy friends too. For example my daughter goes away with her father every 2nd weekend. So instead of going with our regular group of horse riding buddies on May long weekend we went the following weekend with just 2 other families without any other children. During this time their was a group of ATV, Quads and supped up trucks on the other side of the dirt trail where we with our horses were camping. My boyfriend now FH at the time as we were not engaged just yet was out and we were sitting eating super and my daughter darted around the corner and one of his friends in the center of the sand pile right near us started spinning his truck like an A**** as we are screaming looking for my daughter (thankfully she was in the horse trailer looking for something) and my FH got up and took off up the trailer towards where the others were camped. All you could hear was my FH screaming at them from down the trail and he came back and said they will behave now. My mom later went to say something as well as she is a bad asthmatic and our horses can't take that as well and our friends don't take lightly to that either.( One of our horses came back sick too) We both like to have a good time and we spent the rest of the evening up drinking with them but he can put his foot down when enough is enough. If you have strong feelings in regards to your fiances friends and how he is around them and their influence on him they probably are right. Don't give up on him but don't give in either. Stay strong. Something will work out.

Oh dear me! This is not a good sign. Take it from the ol' girl on this site whose been around the block a few times. Maybe you should wait to get married until he and his friends are more mature. It sounds like he hasn't gotten all that partying out of his system yet. If you can't trust him now to make good decisions for his family, wait till he grows up. When a man gets married, his main job is to take care of his family and be responsible. Do you see this in your fiancé at this time?

I agree with Alexa. If your FH knows that this behaviour bothers you so much and still does it, likely this will not change after you get married. You also cannot ask him to no longer hang out with his friends without creating some issues in your relationship and alienating his friends further. This is something you guys really need to sit down and discuss before your wedding.