Hello community, Happy Holidays! 
Now that you and your partner are married or even if engaged still, how are you spending your time over the holidays? Do you choose one date for one side of the family and another for the other side? Do you and your partner celebrate with each side separately? I know it can get tricky coordinating two families especially if both sides have large families.
For us, because my husband is Jewish, we visit his mom around the start of Hanukkah and then whichever day my mother and father pick around Christmas, we will go visit with them so luckily it's pretty simple for us.
