Help: Wedding nightmares?

I have had a couple and one my photographer refused to show up and we couldn't get a hold of her. Another one it was a quick wedding thrown together because something had happened with my other one and the only people there were my co-workers...including the ones I honestly can't stand..and I was into this other guy Kyle and so before I came out to "walk down the aisle", we were kissing..... I was wearing this dress with sleeves and just covered me up and not what I wanted at all in a dress and my hair wasn't done. Gahhhhh