So my fiancé got a consult to get a custom dress shirt, vest, and jacket, since he's so long. He informs me that I'm not allowed to see it, and not allowed to help with the groomsmen either... idk about that.. I feel like he's not going to get a good color match to my dress. since my dress is ivory he can't get stark white. He said " well I don't get to see your dress till the day of" ... is that even a thing.. like for the bride not to see the groom ?