Friends part of the wedding

Hi Kelly!

This is a great question and you got some wonderful advice from the PPs.

I would second the advice and say it's totally up to your personal preference. If you would like to get them a personal gift, go for it! If you would rather give them both cash, this is totally ok too! I don't know anyone who isn't pleased to get a cash gift

Have you since decided what you will do?

Cash is a nice gift to give for all your friends/uncle's good doings towards your wedding. A gift card for each person for a spa or something they enjoy for the value you wish to give is something that can also show them how grateful you are to them for being part of your wedding and doing what they are.

I feel like since these are your friends vs. vendors you hired, you could go personal with a gift you'd think they'd like, although you can't go wrong with a monetary gift. You could give a combination of money (e.g. $100) and a gift to make it more personal.

Personally I can't think of a reason why money would be bad! lol

The worst they can do is say that them singing/marrying you was their gift and in that case just don't expect any presentation from them (which I would take any day).

My FH's Uncle is supposed to be marrying us so we will be paying for all the costs in legal papers and whatnot (license and whatever), but tipping him roughly $150-$250 - not quite sure how much it will cost for the license yet.