Is there a dish or plate of food that is meaningful for you as a couple? If so, are you looking to incorporate that into your wedding reception? It could be a cultural dish, something you ate on the first date, the meal you were having when he proposed, or just something you both enjoy for simple reasons. So what's the lemon chicken to your Ray and Debra (am I dating myself? lol)
For us, we love coffee so we're going to have a coffee based cocktail as our signature drink. Our first date was a coffee (and dinner) date so it seems fitting. And being Asian, we're going to try and incorporate some of those flavours into our meal, whether it be one of the courses or an appetizer during cocktail hour.
