my RSVP deadline is quickly approaching (May 16/22). I only have a handful of guests who haven't RSVP'd so I have been slowly starting to follow up but my Fiancé got some push back from one of his friends saying the deadline isn't until May 16 and now my Fiancé is saying I am jumping the gun. What do you think? I'm such a planner and I didn't think it was that big of a deal to start following up a couple weeks early. Guests have had their invites since late January and like I said there is only about 15 people who haven't confirmed or declined.