Flower Girl/Ring Bearer

Dont have them! its your wedding do whatever you want. you dont have to have the same traditions and things everyone else does.

I don't have either. They're not mandatory, by any means!

The choice is up to you depending on whether they are needed or not. You can skip these roles and go simple that doesn't have to be part of your wedding party.

Though I did read about someone who is 48 going to be a flower girl for a friends wedding and I have to say I love that lol

We have a 4 year old daughter and a 6 year old son and are still not having a flower girl or ring bearer. It is something that is totally up to you and FH.

They aren't necessary - we have them since we do have small children to suit the role, but if you don't it's not an issue.

No need for them. These days wedding parties can be as big or small (or non-existent) as you like!

I don't want ANY kids at my wedding so we won't be having a ring bearer or flower girl! We will just have the MOH/Best men (we have 2) carry the rings!

I don't see anything wrong with not including them! I have been to 7 weddings and none of them had ring bearer or a flower girl.

If there aren’t any small children important or super close to you, don’t worry about it. Many weddings I have been to don’t have either one and it works just perfectly!
We have both because we have many nieces and nephews and wanted a couple to be included (the ones that are young enough! )

We aren't having a ring bearer. FH's brother will be in charge of keeping the things with him for the day.

If there are important kiddos in your life and they'll fit in your budget, then I say they're cute to include but they aren't necessary. We don't have any so we're not including either one.

I don’t have either or so to me, it’s perfectly fine.