so im just hoping for some advice. my brothers girlfriend who im somewhat close with is being super distant from me lately. she avoids my messages, refuses to go help my mom find a bridal shower venue (i had to go instead), she keeps using the excuse “im busy” but on instagram she posts herself at home watching netflix, or having brunch with her friends. obviously my wedding is a priority to her. it hurts me because even when i reached out because she hasnt been around for a few weeks she straight up ignores me. she doesnt reply to me. she is refusing to come to a birthday dinner (1.5hr event later in the evening) stating “im working” but she isnt. we work at the same place, i see the schedule.
idk what to do at this point. i cant talk to her face to face because she ignores me. and next time ill probably see her is christmas & i dont want to cause a scene at christmas. what should i do?& oh my brother is the man of honor at my wedding.