Father-daughter Dance

You can pass on the dance if you two are not comfortable dancing. No one is to judge for what is to be done. Ultimately, its your day and what you feel is adequate is good enough for you. You two have something you do enjoy and that is entertaining, that is an alternative for father/daughter thing.

I was at a friend's wedding and he didn't dance with his mom, while his wife danced with her dad. No one judged. He would be super awkward if he did it with his mom.

I think you should do whatever feels right for our and your father. If you don't want to have a father daughter dance, you don't have to. It's your wedding day and you choose what you want to do. Don't worry about that other people are going to think.

Personally, I can't imagine people judging your choice on that. It is so awkward. Is your dad speaking at the wedding? If he is, I would not worry about people questioning your relationship. I assume when you give your speech too you'll speak about your relationship.