For context, you should know that, while most of our wedding vendors are booked, our proposal got postponed due to Covid. 
I don't mind it, since all traditional timelines went out the window this year anyway. So the proposal remains a surprise to me, all I know is that it'll happen before the new year (I hopeXD ).
My partner and I were talking about the double standard that exists in our society that women are expected to wear engagement rings and that men are not. Needless to say, he's a feminist, and I love him even more for it.
Now, for my question to you. I picked an engagement ring for him, which I know he will love and can double as a wedding band after the ceremony if he so wishes, but I have no clue when or how to give it to him. Do I surprise him with it the moment after he proposes and gives me my engagement ring? Or do I wait and give it to him another day? Do I kneel down and propose after he does or at the same time? I'm so excited but so confused. 
Help!
