Engaged>married? Fiancé troubles

I'm so sorry this must be really tough for you! I know covid has been discouraging for a lot of couples but we are on the tail end of things now so it's completely normal to be thinking about details of a wedding. I don't know what your conversations were prior to getting engaged but to me it sounds like there is some resentment there and perhaps he felt pressure to take the next step even if he wasn't ready? I really hope that's not the case and it's a simple miscommunication but I think you need to sit down with him and tell him how you are feeling and ask for his honesty. I would straight up ask "do you still want to get married" of course you risk a very hurtful response, but it's better than always wondering. I agree that if you can't come to a resolution this way that couple's counselling would be the way to go if he is open to that.

I'm sorry your partner hasn't been supportive since you got engaged. I can't imagine how disappointing that must be. You are absolutely not wrong for feeling this way. When people get engaged the end goal is to be married 99% of the time - although I have heard of rare circumstances where some people just stay engaged for like 40 years. Your partner proposed to you and it's completely natural that the next step is to start planning or at least start thinking about planning.

What sort of conversations did the two of you have about marriage prior to becoming engaged? Were you both open about your expectations for the wedding? It sounds like there's been a big miscommunication somewhere along the line. Or if there has been no miscommunication and your partner is well aware of your feelings then unfortunately it sounds like there are much bigger issues here. I think the only way to move forward is to be completely honest about how you've felt since you've been engaged and to communicate your intentions with the engagement. If you're still not on the same page after having a serious discussion, I would look into couples counselling.