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Eloping in europe!

Laura, on August 29, 2017 at 14:02 Posted in Wedding ceremony 0 7

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Hi ladies,Ive been so indecisive with all of our wedding planning it's crazy! We have found a lovely place in Europe where it's very simple to get married there and it's beautiful. I really love the idea of going off to Europe and starting off our lives together with such a great adventure, and it just being an adventure for the two of us. The only thing that's really making it tough for me, is my family. They are being super supportive and saying whatever we want to do is totally fine as long as we are happy. But I want my dad to walk me down the isle. We are planning on to still have a ceremony and reception back home in the summer, so our family can still see us get 'married'. I'm just worried it won't feel the same as it would for the real ceremony, or I'll end up regretting not having that moment on the real day. Are there any brides out there that have experienced this? Thanks!!

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Sonja · On August 30, 2017 at 00:01
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I feel the beauty of getting married is being surrounded by the people who really care about you and want you to be happy. Somehow, having a second ceremony at home may feel like a let down. I like the idea of getting married at home and taking your honeymoon in Europe.
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Bethany · On August 29, 2017 at 20:50
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I actually don't see the problem with doing exactly what you said. Getting officially married in Europe, just the two of you. Then having a wedding, ceremony and all, with ur friends and family, where your father walks you down the aisle. Adding all the traditions you want for that time. What is the hesitation on doing this?
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Laura · On August 29, 2017 at 15:35
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Yeah it's super tough, considering I think my dad also feels the same way about the walking down the isle. Everyday I have a different thought about it haha. I think we will just have to take our time on deciding and not rush anything
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Laura · On August 29, 2017 at 15:32
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We would rather keep it just the two of us if we are eloping. My parents could likely afford the trip but my fiances family could not afford it. So it just doesn't seem fair to have my family and not his. I'm also thinking maybe we just have something very casual here as our ceremony and reception and Europe just be our honeymoon. There are far to many decisions haha!
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Erin · On August 29, 2017 at 15:32
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This is a great idea. Very thoughtful and inclusive!
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Erin · On August 29, 2017 at 15:31
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This is a hard decision! We had originally wanted to elope to avoid all the crazy planning and financial costs of weddings. My mum said she'd be really hurt if we did that and since I am only child that really hit me. I think you really need to sit down and think about this choice. Maybe you could do the official ceremony here and then get "married" again at the place in Europe as part of your honeymoon? Otherwise I agree with Joey about bringing some close family to witness and share in the experience.
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Joey · On August 29, 2017 at 15:14
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Wow Laura, that is a tough one. On one hand it does sound exciting to elope off in a different country, but I can see it being really hard to get married alone. Would you consider bringing your immediate families with you on your elopement? That would still keep things small and personal, but with the added bonus of your family seeing you get married and your father walking you down the aisle. It's totally awesome that you have such a supportive family who will be happy with whatever you decide, so take some time and think about it. Try to envision yourself on your wedding day with and without your family with you and see what feels right.
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