Does 25 people mean 25 people or is this a 25 means 35 type situation? Does 25 include servers or are they not part of the gathering? At what point does the "Wedding" end and it become a gathering? Can I save the paperwork for the next day and its all a "Religious" gathering? What are the rules in plain English? GAAAHHHHH!! I just want someone to give me some solid answers so I can plan this damned wedding and be done with it.