We are having a smaller rustic wedding (70 people) with a kind of non-traditional cocktail reception after our ceremony. Food will begin to go out around 7:30pm (ceremony at 6pm) and be served both buffet style and through travelling appetizers, as well as dessert and a late night poutine bar at 10pm. After (finally!) meeting with our venue today they let us know they typically only set up seating for 50% of the final guest count because it is a cocktail style reception.
So here's where we're torn! We have many guests (grandparents, siblings with newborns, other elderly family members etc) who will require seating for what will likely be most of the night, leaving not many seats open for the rest of our guests. The idea of having our friends balance their plates while standing and have no where to go back to sit down between drinks and dancing isn't ideal to me, and we are considering seating everyone and assigning tables but not seats. Any helpful opinions on this idea? I know its not the typical way to have seating for a cocktail reception but our whole situation is sort of non-traditional anyways?
Also open to other ideas too! COVID planning has made me so unsure about all my decisions!