Can someone calm me down tho!?

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I agree. At the end of the day, have that glass and reeelaaax. Have a wonderful wedding. P.S. I wish we could have a toast together as well.

View quoted message Hahaha I wish we lived closer then we could have a wine night! I can't drink lots of wine this close to the wedding with so much to do! I won't be very prOductive lol

Eeek... 4 days... I'm excited for you... Breathe you got this!!!!

View quoted message You're like a little therapist. You're really resignating with the fact that we should both show each other sensitivity at this time, and indulge in self care. Thanks for the reminder to keep me on track!

Write a list of to do's, enlist some help from your mother or bridesmaids and communicate with your fiance! Let him know what is left to do and that you are feeling stressed. Either he will reassure you everything will be okay, he'll at least understand or he will give you a helping hand.

The answer is WINE, and lots of it!! LOL. I agree with all the previous suggestions. If you can get some help from family or friends, that might calm you down. Hubby's mind isn't focussed on the details like our minds are. Just let him know you're having a hard time dealing with everything and you'll get reassurance from him. I wish you all the best. You'll have to show us pictures.

Lists help!!! I was so crazy stressed leading up to the wedding and my sister and mom came early to help, but had to give me the "help me help you" pep talk to get me to focus and articulate what I actually needed to do

Make lists to keep you organized and focused - and it will make it way easier for others to help you so you can take some time for self-care!

It'll be ok! You both need to show each other extra sensitivity and love right now, I'm sure you both appreciate the stress that the other one is going through. As much as you're feeling like you need to be devoted to wedding stuff I HIGHLY recommend taking some time for some self care - take a bath, read a book, go for a walk, do some exercize... do some things that make you feel like you. Maybe you and your FH need a date night, just a few hours without work or wedding - both will be there for you to come back to, but I think you both could benefit from some fun and a break.

Yay 4 days! That's exciting! But I totally get it, I would be hyperfocused too. I'm sure your FH understands where you're coming from and hopefully doesn't take it to persoanlly. I agree with Erin, maybe one night when you guys are winding down and getting ready for bed (or when you're in a bit of a calmer state of mind) you can talk to him about this and explain that you don't mean to come off as snippy. It will soon be over, you're so close! As hard as it is, try to enjoy these last few days as much as possibe because your wedding day is going to fly by in the blink of an eye and will soon become a memory. Enjoy the ride
I know I say this but I will probably be just as stressed leading up to my wedding day lol.

Don't worry. Things will work out. I'm sure on some level he understands. Maybe just let him know that's how you're feeling. I do that with my FH and he is usually pretty good at calming me down or telling me I'm being ridiculous lol