My MOH planned bachelorette party weekend in wine country a few hours from our town for wineries, spa, and girl time. All of the bridal party is going and some other friends. About half of the people going are mothers of children from a under a year old to toddlers. One of them has asked to bring her 18 month old baby and husband along, and have them stay in a room in the hotel so she can sleep with them at night and be with her baby as she wants.
The rest of my group is telling me to tell her no, but I don't want to make her uncomfortable. I asked her if there was a reason she needed them there (breast feeding, her husband can't) and she said her husband told her to go, he's fine but she just doesn't want to spend time away from her child. I said ok do what you need to do, but the other girls want me to tell her no and its inappropriate, and the rest of them are leaving their kids with their fathers for the 2 days and she's ruining the trip.
I honestly don't know what to do, I am not a parent myself so I can't relate to the situation, and I don't want her being worried all weekend, but I also don't want the other girls to feel the trip is ruined.
Any advice ?