My future sister-in-law is one of my bridesmaids, she plays the violin and has offered to play music for the ceremony. We are honoured to have her play, but I am wondering how this will work. Has anyone done something similar or does anyone have any suggestions? I want her to be included in the regular bridesmaid stuff as much as possible, so I'm not sure how to work it so that she can play and also walk down the aisle with everyone else and stand up with me. I don't think she's worried about that, and I don't think she'll be offended to have to do something different than the rest of the bridal party, but I feel a bit guilty. I was a bit torn by the idea to begin with because I want all guests, family members, and wedding party to be able to relax and enjoy the day, so I'm not crazy about the idea of someone having to "work". This being said, I love the idea of having her play and have even thought about asking my brother if he will play with her (he plays the guitar), but I'm still conflicted. Another point worth mentioning is that I will have 4 bridesmaids while my FH is only having 3 groomsmen, so it is uneven to begin with.
Any suggestions or advice are greatly appreciated!
Thanks!