So we have picked our wedding party. We have picked the colour theme for the wedding (Black and Purple). The bridesmaids will be in purple (Regency) to be exact and the men will be in black. I have chosen the exact colour, where to get the dress from and have decided that I love the look of some lace or all lace and short (August wedding). There are about 7 different styles of dresses with this combination and different price points. 2 girls have gotten their dresses and 1 I am not worried about as she's waiting for awhile due to personal reasons. They may not love purple but are supportive of my decision.
Then there is one girl (family) who is just not happy. In our bridesmaid convo with the whole group she keeps saying things like, Do we have to go there? Do we have to wear that colour? Why can't we wear different shades of purple? (This originally was the plan but no other colour looked good with this one.) She wants to wait (which is fine) to get her dress as well as she wants to loose weight but is not happy with me that the salon has said they need to order their dress by a certain date. Also during Christmas she said she didn't have to work on a day I had picked for us to go group shopping (didn't work out only my states bridesmaid) and when I asked her if she would like to go as originally she got her days mixed up and said she had to work she she then said she was staying at home.
I feel lost with her. My FH is getting mad at me for feeling upset with her. All that I say to him is that their are plenty of times where you have gotten angry with her. I don't know how to address this with her. I just keep on being firm to what I want as she is use to getting what she wants.
Any suggestions on how to deal with difficult bridesmaids especially those who are family?
