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Jennifer
Frequent user February 2024 Ontario

Bridal shower or not for destination wedding

Jennifer, on July 1, 2018 at 01:55 Posted in Before the wedding 0 7
Hi all, I'm wondering what the etiquette is about having a wedding shower if we're having a destination wedding. If we do this I can only expect 2 couples going with us to the actual wedding so we would have to have a reception dinner to appease family after we get back. Do we still do a shower in this case? Or is it better to just skip it?

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Latest activity by Brittany, on July 3, 2018 at 20:35
  • Brittany
    British Columbia
    Brittany ·
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    My cousin got married in Mexico... 42 people went. She still had a Bridal Shower at home a few months before. No one thought it was in poor taste... actually I think they enjoyed having something to be a part of for the wedding, as most of them weren't going to attend.

    It's up to you. But honestly, as long as the invitation is open to everyone to travel if they wanted/we able to... you can definitely have a shower.

    And if you're hosting a reception later anyways, they still have a party to go to you're hosting...

    I would say feel free to if you want one.

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  • Bianca
    Master August 2019 Ontario
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    I would skip it. My cousin had an unconventional wedding ceremony, so when they had their reception 4 months later there was no wedding party.

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  • Clarissa
    Expert October 2018 Saskatchewan
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    If I was doing a destination wedding I would probably ask my bridal party to skip it because guests have to spend so much money already just to attend the wedding itself.

    I would sit down and price out exactly what guests are going to pay to come to the wedding (flights, hotels, gas, food, etc). It's common for it to costs guests $**** or more to go to them so I would not want to ask them to spend even more on attending a shower.
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  • Vinod
    Top August 2017 Ontario
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    Bridal shower in town is a good idea since your family and friends will not want to travel with more gifts to the destination wedding country.

    I do agree with having a welcome dinner at the resort to have the time with them all.
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  • Tyanna
    Super June 2019 British Columbia
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    Yes I agree with stephanie! Great way to include those who cant make it to your wedding
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  • Stephanie
    VIP May 2019 Ontario
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    I think its fine to have one! A way to include more people on the celebration who wouldn't be going to the actual wedding!
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  • Mona
    Newbie November 2018 Puerto Plata
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    Instead of wedding shower in doing welcome party at the resort most of my family and friends are not close to us. However they are gone be with us at Punta Cana
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