Bridal party - how should we ask groomswoman

View quoted message At least you asked in nice card ways. Haha. I did not even ask. My two sisters said they are in the bridal party and I was like, okay, you got the job! Hahahaha! Then I told my cousin she’s apart of it and then my fiancé asked his cousin. 😂


I’ve been seeing so many people do proposal and I was like, am I supposed to do that? But yeah, I will give them a gift of some sort when we have a bachelorette party, if we do one.

A card to give with the question of becoming a Groomswoman is a nice gesture and simple. Let it be a surprise to meet up or mail to her.

I didn't do a "proposal". I think it's a trend that isn't necessary. I just went to the bookstore, picked up a bundle of blank note cards and wrote something up. We went to each person's home and asked in person.... except for one due to COVID and his sick mother, we video called him.

I personally thinking the bridal party proposals are a bit much but if you're into it, go for it lol. For me, I would just ask them like I'm asking for any other request/favour: verbally and in person. I treated my guys to lunch when I asked them so you can do that if you want to make a thing.

Hello Kaelyn,
Oh that’s such a cool idea. I have seen and heard about best woman or groomswomen. That’s amazing!

You can probably do it the same way that you’re proposing for your MOH. But a little difference. See an idea from Etsy below.

I think Best Woman is a fitting title. My Fiancé isn having a Groomswoman. One of my coworkers is super crafty so we got her to make a card and we got her a coffee mug that matched her interests and a couple donuts!