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Bachelorette Party.

Megan, on May 9, 2018 at 15:05 Posted in Before the wedding 0 5
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Long story short I'm a bridesmaid for my best friends wedding and I know she wants to do Niagara winery thing for her bachelorette. She is also really concerned about everyone spending money because two of our close friends will be pregnant and one has another wedding she is already in. There would be about 12-13 girls invited and I'm not sure if we should just plan something that I know she will love knowing that those three might not be able to come or plan something smaller that I know isn't what she really wants? TIA

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Latest activity by Stephanie, on May 10, 2018 at 18:26
  • Stephanie
    VIP May 2019 Ontario
    Stephanie ·
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    I agree with things below! An airbnb is a great idea! And check out the prices of wine tasting!! Some places in his car offer tours and wine tasting for under $20 each! It's only when you start looking at doing the 3 course dinners with matching wine that it starts getting more expensive!
    Before a friend and I did a tour and taste and bought 2 bottles of wine and had a BLAST!!!
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  • Jennifer
    Super July 2019 Ontario
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    Last year I helped my friend/MOH plan a bachelorette for our good friend. in Niagara.

    get an air bnb as that will be the most affordable for everyone. we had a pregnant guest and she still went to everything and had a blast. we also had another girl that didn't drink, so those 2 drove to where we wanted to go. we organized all the food/purchased the groceries/cooked at the house. and what we did is whether a girl was there for 2 meals or all 5, you paid the same food price to make it easier.

    we did 2 nights at this house, an escape room, a distillery, hung out at a house and played games/ate etc, then to a bar that night. the most it cost anyone was $200 (that was staying the whole weekend, doing every activity, buying a shirt and chipping in for the brides portion).

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  • Maegan
    Super July 2018 British Columbia
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    Talk to her and see what she wants. I am in a similar situation (some of the ladies i want at my bachelorette are young mothers or will be pregnant) so i asked my MOH to plan a day that people can drop in and out of depending on their situation (financial or otherwise). No idea what my bachelorette is gonna be like , but everyone seems super excited for it!
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  • Helen
    Frequent user September 2018 British Columbia
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    I agree with Jessica. Ultimately it is the girls decision if they want to come along or not; not sure of the logistics of it all, but is it possible to do a 2-parter? So a nice brunch (even at one of the wineries) and then tastings? Those with budgets or bumps can attend part of it, be included and share in her day, while respecting their own limitations also?

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  • Jessica
    Super March 2018 Ontario
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    I think it would be a good idea to speak with her about it. Tell her your concerns about the three girls and see what she says.

    You could also speak with the three ladies and see their thoughts. Just because there may be wine tastings and things, they still might want to join in the gathering and enjoy the company.

    Either way, speak with them to help you make the decision a little easier.

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