Bachelorette

I've done party favors or little gift bags for bachelorette parties before - but always because I volunteered my time and money for it! It definitely should not be expected!

For favors I've done hangover kits, custom koozies, custom sunglasses, custom t-shirts, and for a spa bachelorette party I did little gift boxes of spa goodies!

Custom bachelorette koozies:Hangover kits:Bachelorette favors - sunglasses and flower crowns:New Orleans Bachelorette favors:

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It would be great to get help but a lot of modern bridesmaids have it in their heads that their only job is to "wear a dress". You might not get the help you want even if you ask for it. You're being a great MOH for taking care of things for the bride. She's lucky to have you.

View quoted message Okay well then that’s ridiculous and unheard of as far as I’m concerned!! Especially if you aren’t paying to stay at the cottage. Bachelorette is supposed to be fun.

View quoted message We are not renting. We have access to it. There’s no gift for them. But the hrudesmaid saudvsges herself was expecting us (myself or grudge) to give out gifts. Meanwhile has not helped with any cost for shower or bachelorette.... it’s sad the bride is Trying to pay when she isn’t supposed to

View quoted message Are you going to someone’s cottage or renting one? If going to someone’s maybe she meant a hostess gift?

we are going to my parents cottage for my bachelorette and we are all contributing to what is being brought for meals but that’s it. Definitely no gifts.

View quoted message Bridesmaid. We thought we wouldn’t invite anyone not in party and also she complained about having to pitch in. I’m her MOH and I’ve paid for shower with only help from fam not girls. I feel I should not be spending all of this again for bachelorette am I wrong? Should I not be getting help....

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Is this girl a bridesmaid or just attending? Either way, it's rude of her to expect anything.

View quoted message I only ask because the one girl commented that we should be doing something and expects it of us....

Are you the MOH or the bride? Either way, party favours are not necessary at a bachelorette party.

Like party favours? I don’t think it’s necessary, I’ve never been given a gift for going to a bachelorette. We’ve made shirts, tutus and stuff like that but no party favour

No gifts needed to give for the bachelorette.

I have been to about 3 and never received a gift and would never expect it either! Don’t worry a bout one

I have not heard about their being gifts or favours for a bachelorette party.

I know some people will do matching outfits/shirts but that's not a must do.

View quoted message In that case, no I don't think it's a must!

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For the bachelorette or do you mean for having them in your bridal party?
In my opinion, it's common courtesy to give them something for being in your bridal party, it doesn't have to be anything big, even just paying for their hair or paying for part of their attire.
My thoughts are they are spending all this money (yes it's kind of a given that's what they signed up for) but they should feel appreciated.
Its totally your call though!