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Curious December 2022 Ontario

Asking your original bridesmaids and moh and groomsmen in a vow renewal

Kim, on October 26, 2020 at 16:59 Posted in Before the wedding 0 8
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I have been doing research on whether you have your original wedding party stand up symbolically with you at your vow renewal and some people do it. After knowing someone for 30 plus years how do you "propose" to them to be your bridesmaid or MOH again? Is it tacky? Really need some guidance on this.

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Latest activity by Vinod, on November 4, 2020 at 11:18
  • Vinod
    Top August 2017 Ontario
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    Proposal boxes are nice and a great way to ask your friends to be in your wedding party. Congrats on your 30+ Vow Renewal. They will appreciate it and be your side up front.

    I generally just ask directly to know its personal as they are long term friends as you mentioned.

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  • K
    Curious December 2022 Ontario
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    Thanks everyone! I think I am going to do up boxes of gifts and propose to them again and have fun with it! Smiley smile

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  • Alison
    Frequent user August 2022 Ontario
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    I love this idea, especially if you are all still close! I think it would be really fun to ask them and have them stand with you again. Not tacky at all in my opinion!
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  • Rayanne
    Master June 2022 Ontario
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    I think that is beautiful. What a great idea!
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  • K
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    I think that's a really good idea Amelia! Thanks! Smiley smile

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  • K
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    Yup, we are all still friends even though we live hours apart. Couldn't imagine my life without them!

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  • Hank
    Featured September 2021 Ontario
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    Congrats on 30+ years. If I'm still that close to my peeps after all this time and I was asked to stand up there as they restate their commitment to one another, I would consider it an honour to be part of the celebration. And if your wedding party hit it off 30 years ago but haven't seen each other much since, it's a fun way to catch up.

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  • Amelia
    Master October 2020 New Brunswick
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    I think if you want them to be there with you then it is t tacky!


    I would do a little proposal like "I couldn't imagine my wedding without you years ago, and I couldn't do it again without you by my side".
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