Hello beautiful future brides! I am just wondering how you would go about asking for money as a gift for your wedding vs an actual gift. My fiance and I have been living together for 5 years so we already have a place together with pretty much everything we need furniture wise right now. We wont need anything more until we buy a house together (we currently rent), which wont be for a couple more years. We would prefer getting the cash from the wedding to pay it off and then we can start saving for a house. Do I word this on the invitation, or do I tell the guests we would prefer cash. Just not sure how to go about this!?