And the stress finally hits

I just had my wedding a week ago, so I totally understand what you are going through. The stress can be overwhelming. It does sound like you have a lot on your plate, so I suggest writing lists and deciding things that can wait and things that need to get done ASAP. The birthday party will be after the wedding so try and leave some of those things for afterwards, but focus on anything that needs immediate attention.

Keep in mind you have tons of people who I am sure would be willing to help out, so delegating where possible will help with the overwhelming feeling.

Best of luck and enjoy these weeks! While they are crazy, it certainly will pay off on your big day!

I have some lieu days at work so i'm taking one tomorrow so i can get out and get some stuff done. I think i'll feel better when i have more checked off my list. I have all the smaller stuff to finish up now, like seating chart printouts, fine tuning timelines, place cards etc. My bridesmaids are coming over on the 14th to help put together all the centre pieces and favours. I will do the shopping for the rehearsal dinner and food for day of (breakfast/lunch) a couple days before.

I can do final payments for the cake and florist tomorrow too then. I'm actually chasing my venue right now to make our payment. Technically it was due yesterday and i've been emailing and calling for over a week asking about final dollar amounts and payment forms.

My bridal shower is on Saturday so i have that to look forward to. My FH and i went out and bought Thank you cards in preparation.

Hopefully i can get some sleep tonight and then i will feel better.

It sounds like you need a day to yourself. What about going to the spa for a massage or going somewhere to think and not be distracted. Whenever I'm feeling this way I find myself going to water. I'll go sit around the lake or by the water falls we have in our city and it helps ground me.

I feel you!! I'm 44days out and I'm freaking out. I picked most of our decor and flowers almost a year ago. I just asked for an appointment with our decorator because I'm freaking out it won't look good, I need to be reminded. I really have nothing left to do, but omg is the stress starting.

I just keep second guessing my decor even though I know it's perfect. Ugh lol

This sounds awful! That's a lot to go through so close to your big day. Try to take a day/evening to relax and unwind, talk to your fiancé too will help! I'm still 79 days off but I only feel stress when I'm around my mom because she just DRILLS me on everything! Plus she second guesses every. single. decision. It's driving me crazy, I just avoid her.

Good luck with everything! The stress I’ve felt while wedding planning is next-level, so I can just imagine what you’re going through to add in your best friend issues.

OMG i completly know where you are coming from, my wedding also 2 weeks away so for some strange reason feel like crying all the time, i think its just a big change coming. I know that at the end of the day all be well so hold on to that feeling. Talking to your partner helps, and even though your friend has a lot going on she will appriciate that you still come to her.

Awe I would still talk to her I’m sure she won’t mind I bet she wants to be there for you still! You should totally try and get in a spa day! Maybe go do pedis with her and some other bridesmaids? I plan to do that with my girls before my wedding. You have a lot on your plate for sure take it one thing/day at a time, talk to your partner and get lots of rest!